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Calendar.
November 14. Gerry returns to Chicago from Honolulu
November 15. Edgewater Mutual Aid Network
November 16. Harvest Celebration at Edgewater Presbyterian Church
Announcements.
Gerry became President of Evanston Nouveau Rotary Club on July 1, 2025.
Gerry was appointed to the Chicago Presbytery Assembly as Elder Commissioner.
For business related to the former publications Gay Chicago Magazine, Chicago Phoenix, and Opus Media, please refer to legal counsel.
President of Evanston Nouveau Rotary Club 2025-26
Where do we go from here? 2026 is more of a mystery to me than previous years
I'm looking at the blank pages of a 2026 planner I’m planning to buy and realizing something profound. I have less idea of what the next year holds for me than ever before.
Save Your Kisses for Me: The soundtrack of my Ilocano childhood in Hawaii
People have been asking me about an obscure song I often use to back my video posts. There’s a long story behind it.
Hot Oil, Cold Chicken, Kalihi Memories: Hawaii-style cold ginger chicken
Growing up, our dinner table was a rotation of local staples, but few things elicit the specific nostalgia that cold ginger chicken does.
Mayor Harold Washington flung the doors open for Chicago’s LGBTQ community
While his impact on the Black and Latino communities is well documented, we often overlook how fundamentally he altered life for Chicago's LGBTQ community.
What Harold Washington meant to us Asian Americans and the rest of Chicago
When I see Ald. Leni Manaa-Hoppenworth (48th) do her job, a fellow Filipino American, I think, “He helped pave the way for her, for us.”
I don’t often tell people why I really return to Hawaii once or twice a year
The weather itself has been a poetic illustration of this internal state: an alternating mix of sunshine and rain, both falling simultaneously from a half-blue sky.
Three people lectured me on microaggression as ‘woke,’ judging ‘mild comments’ as racist
The pushback I received from white voices on the mainland to my reporting racism, and causing a company into action and accountability, added a chilling layer of secondary harm.
The ethical weight of speaking up
I did what was ethically necessary to protect a principle, but I am left to mourn the human cost of that necessity.
Displacement and the palimpsest of progress on my native O`ahu
I find myself caught between admiration for human ingenuity and a profound melancholy for what is displaced in the name of progress.
A bitter taste of betrayal, racism at Liliha Bakery
As someone whose professional work involves defending Asian American Pacific Islanders, I found myself in the unexpected position of having to advocate for an African American patron against racist comments from staff.
Jacob Vijandre and the price of a voice in America
People have been wondering why I’ve been wearing a keffiyeh more often. I do so in solidarity with a fellow Filipino American Muslim young man caught in the ICE raids.
Did you know? Typhoons in the Philippines have two names
This dual naming system helps keep local people safe and aware.
The sandhill cranes arrived in Chicago; a powerful spiritual sign
For so long, these cranes have been seen by Indigenous Americans as spiritual messengers, symbols of longevity and profound transformation.
Reflecting on the white-bias of ordination exams
The inquirer we met with today has already shown clear evidence of call through faithful service, pastoral presence, and deep care for community.
Short Story: Oh, shiny moon
The toy car rattled across the fake green marble of the vinyl tiles, its wheels whispering over seams that led from the living room into the waiting dark.
Lessons of Fat Bear Week
In a world that measures worth by busyness, it is striking to see a creature of the wild, made for survival, strength, and constant motion, simply sit and gaze.
The existential sit-in-the-car
The car is still, but the world is in motion. I sit in my parking lot pew, the sanctuary of a dashboard altar, windows all the way down, letting September air baptize me with a breeze that still carries the memory of summer but already hints at the sting of coming winter.
Comedians, artists are dangerous; that's why they're being silenced
History has shown us the first people you want to destroy in an authoritarian regime are the comedians and artists.
The First Amendment was supposed to be unbreakable
I know what happens when free speech collapses.
Sugar and Soil: How a U.S. Census map connects my Hawaii Ilocano forefathers with Germans
It is a simple map of white ethnic ancestry, but it holds a mirror to the broader story of America.
Recent writing.
this is an lgbt safe space
Please support: Lambda Legal GLAAD It Gets Better The Trevor Project
black lives matter
Please support: Black Lives Matter NAACP Color of Change
Gerry is Chicago Health Care Hero 2020
Recent reading.
Did you know? Gerry reads every single day for at least one hour. He’s even successfully done this through two stays in the ICU at the hospital.
As of August 8, 2025, Gerry has read 1,578 days in a row or 227 weeks in a row, non-stop.